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What truths do you regret not knowing about earlier?

  If there is anything in my life so far that I think is the most important thing I have realized, it is that human life is like the value of investment goods, and there is mean regression. That mean value is the deepest impulse in your heart, your true desire, and what kind of person you are. My growth experience , if you exclude the things that are not important in the future because of poor discipline, puppy love, skipping classes, fighting, and breaking your leg because of playing ball, it is actually a very standard growth experience of Chinese students. Enter the best elementary school, the best middle school, rank in the top 10 in the high school entrance examination area, and the score in the college entrance examination is also enough to be ranked in the first echelon. After that, I dropped out of Fudan University and went abroad, and I went to the best universities in North America. Walking on this road, until I was in college, I always believed that the social pyramid is...

What are some high-EQ chatting skills?

  1. The best way to reject a tough person is to be a repeater. Let me give you an example: Colleague: Please help me process this document! You (with a perplexed face, speaking weakly): I want to help you too, but you see I work so much. Colleague: Mine is more important, you should deal with it first. You (still embarrassed): But I really have a lot of work. Colleague: Are you still a friend? If you are a friend, please help me with this document first. You (speaking slowly with a firm face): But I really have a lot of work, so I can't help you. This trick is especially suitable for rejecting other people's requests and safeguarding one's own interests. Because no matter how tough a person is, once he meets someone who speaks like a repeater, he will feel helpless like a scholar meeting a soldier. This method comes from the book "The Curse of Love". Good people who don't understand rejection can also read this book, which is more comprehensive. 2. When you r...

What's the most attractive thing a guy does?

  First of all, this is a teaching post, not a storytelling session. The routines in the story are indeed very attractive when expressed in words, but there are too many restrictive conditions, such as the premise that the girl is your girlfriend, or is in an ambiguous state. The truly practical "flirting" refers to the process of making a girl's favorability for a boy go from zero to one, and then from one to one hundred. There is a saying that "Girls are not chased, but attracted". So, have you ever thought about what girls are attracted to? Someone rushed to answer "rich, handsome..." Then the question is, if you are on the same economic level as another boy, even he earns $500 more than your monthly salary; your looks are about the same, even he is five centimeters taller than you. This is most often the case because of social circle constraints. So, based on this premise, what is "flirting": 1. Satisfy the gender of girls At the very lea...